The acronym D.I.R.G.A.F. (pronounced Dear-Gaf and standing for Do I Really Give A F*%#) was first explained to me by a burned out, cynical defense attorney over 20 years ago. The comment was that she really didn’t care anything about her client. Didn’t believe he was innocent, buy his story or really care about what happened to him in court on the case we were dealing with. Truth be told, she knew he was guilty as sin and was looking to get minimal time or a “deal” for a guilty plea. Now, her lack of concern for her client made my case against him a walk in the park but a staunch defender of justice – she was not.
I wouldn’t want to be treated by a doctor who had a DIRGAF attitude, fly with a DIRGAF airline pilot, or have service provided by an uncaring bus driver, car mechanic, chef, or fireman.
And I don’t want to work with or have law enforcement services provided by a cop or be supervised by someone with a serious case of D.I.R.G.A.F.
Recently when dealing with a dermatologist on a suspected skin cancer spot on my face, I was reassured when the doctor personally called and left a message that the biopsy was negative and the tissue benign. This doctor (who likes to talk guns while examining me by the way) took the time to personally call me and give me the good news. His actions made a difference to me and my family.
In the same period of time I’ve been confronted with police coworkers whose jaundiced attitude and lack of “giving a f*%#” whether on the range or on the street have made it difficult to train them and difficult to perform my duties. “KD,” they say, “I just don’t care anymore.” As they go through the motions of doing their job. Since apathy (lack of interest or concern) is one of the Ten Deadly Errors as delineated by former lawman Pierce Brooks so many years ago in his seminal “…officer down, code three.”, (Motorola Teleprograms, Inc.; 1975). It is certainly clear that D.I.R.G.A.F. or apathy can get you killed.
The opposite of not caring then is caring, being concerned or taking interest. Taking an active role (interest) in your job, preparations and training will help keep the cynical or apathetic wolves at bay. Yes, it is a crappy time in LE nationwide. With agencies forced to do more with less and at the whim of ignorant political agendas, being a cop is tough. That said, responding to calls or dealing with suspects while unconcerned or with little interest is a good way to get yourself and well as your partners killed, it is the exact opposite attitude that a working cop should exhibit.
In the middle of a serious resisting or shootout, no one cares that you’re burned out, disgruntled or “don’t give a crap.”
Work at It
Hopefully you don’t drive your vehicle without regular and routine maintenance. Proper tire inflation, lubrication and tune up ensure that your automobile will get you where it is you’re headed. Same too, your attitude and commitment to stay “dialed in” needs maintenance. Crappy attention to the risks of the police job and lack of training in the skills necessary to perform your function can, among other things, can lead to apathy and a poor attitude which affect your ready status. Quite honestly I don’t know of a squared away well trained officer who exhibits a D.I.R.G.A.F. attitude. The intent focus on the will to win is the antithesis of the “I don’t care attitude.”
Pick up an LE related book or magazine, go to a training course, put on the bag clothes and work on your empty hand strikes and kicks on the heavy bag, go to the range and work on your pistol skills – energy into attention and preparation will chase away the evils of antipathy and apathy.
What Do You Care About?