What Really Matters?

How do you prepare for the time when you accidentally kill one of your own? I don't know how to answer that question, and I desperately want to answer that question because it's happened again, and this time it was someone I knew.


Like I said earlier, none of us will get out of this alive. What are you doing in your off time? Are you watching your kids play sports, maybe even coaching, or are you working three part-time jobs so can afford that new boat or oversized SUV? Do you think your kids are going to remember what a great boat you had, or will they remember spending time with you? Are you spending time with your spouse or life partner, or are you partying with your work partners? Until someone proves otherwise, I have to believe we only get one shot at this, no pun intended. Take time for the things that really matter.

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