The Malignant Narcissist

Hi Pamela!

I was wondering what types of things the police are doing to protect and prevent (as much as humanly possible of course) folks on the internet from these very sick individuals. I recently had my own experience with one of these - and can actually recognize traits in others I have dealt with online as well (all 3 men) and had no idea what I had gotten myself into.

This guy was (and probably still is) a real piece of work. Really worked his angle for over 3 years. Then when the romantic card entered into the ring of our relationship - things got really wierd. His behavior was strange. He would "disappear" (of the internet) for days and then all of sudden come back like no big deal. He would sulk and go on about "injustices" he was going through. Then he decided to throw the sex card in and that's when he got REALLY raw.

What can I do to help here so this happens to as little women (and I understand some men go through it too with narcissitic women) as possible?

Thank you!

I was in a two year relationship with a Malignant Narcissist. He destroyed my friendships, my children and my relationship, and my entire sense of self. He swept into my life causing me so much uncertainty, I did anything and everything to make it better, until he became physically abusive. I had him arrested and will not see him until the court hearing. I am well rid of him, but the remaining damage is huge.

I am married to a malignant narcissist. I have tried to file for divorce, but he goes ballistic at the mention of it, even though we don't live together. Our local Domestic Abuse Center is very small and limited in resources. I feel there's no way out of this situation without putting myself in extreme danger.

I do not doubt that people with this personality disorder have a serious issue and can create tremendous damage. I am just wondering the source about the prevalence. To state 1-3 out of 20 people has this disorder is quite a serious statement. Is there a source I can review to find out more about this issue? Thank you.